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Prepared Together

A calmer conversation before the crisis.

Prepared Together: A Family Guide to Emergency Healthcare and Caregiving helps families organize important information and begin conversations before a medical emergency or caregiving crisis.

About the book

Start the conversation while everyone can participate.

The guide is designed to help families organize important information, talk about emergency health-care wishes, and make caregiving details easier to find.

Why I wrote it

Families should not have to learn everything in the middle of an emergency.

Prepared Together gives people a gentle structure for the conversations that can feel awkward, emotional, or easy to postpone.

Who it helps

For the people who may one day need the information.

Emergency health-care preparedness

Know what to gather, who to call, and what matters most when someone cannot speak for themselves.

Caregiving

Make practical responsibilities and key information easier for a care team to share.

Family conversations

Create a less intimidating way to talk about care, independence, trust, and next steps.

Resources

Use the guide as a starting point for questions to bring to the right professionals.

Five Things I Need You to Know

A starting point for a family conversation.

  1. 1Who to call first
  2. 2Who I trust to help with decisions
  3. 3Where my important information and documents are
  4. 4What matters most to me about my care and independence
  5. 5What I want my family to understand before a crisis

The 15-Minute Test

If something happened to you today, could someone you trust find the information they need within 15 minutes?

If the answer is not yet, that is not a reason to panic. It is a place to begin.

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